The only first school, private and obligatory that we have in general is in our own family. The memories and experiences of our childhood. Emotions, examples taken in the environment where we were raised, it becomes the baggage of material that we reach out for to educate our children.
It's a well known fact, that Parents unconsciously and in each case rationalize after the acts, they project over their children anxiety and frustrations that come with them as motor samples, of their own time while being raised.
It's important to know, however that a child, it's not a exempt to practical intelligence and affective urgencies, the boy/girl battles everyday with all its force to impose what he continues and thinks that it should be.
Parents should be very careful and aware, about
any temptation that the child is asking for to prevent him/her from harm, but at the same time, give the child healthy exploring. Parents can't become modeling clay, changing figures, to childish whims. Nowadays, we have a lot of resources that can prepare us to become Parents, remember that it's one of the most important jobs and the couple should be prepare for it. It's always good to take the positive lectures in your childhood and leave out the negative, if the struggle on raising children becomes harder, counseling and professional advice is always out there. Our kids, deserve a good education and a happy life, creating bases for adulthood is so important for future development in life. Raise with the good example! :) Have fun being a Parents.
Love and Light,
Lucy Campbell
(CBT/Art Therapist)